Sean Orpen Therapy

Kirkland Sex Therapy | Compassionate Relationship Help

Sex and relationships can feel confusing, even when everything else in life is dialed in. If you’re in Kirkland and looking for a thoughtful space to explore your questions about intimacy, connection, or desire—you’re in the right place. I'm a sex therapist working with people who want more out of their relationships and personal growth. Many of my clients are thoughtful, curious, and ready to look at things differently. Therapy with me is a collaborative process—we move at your pace, with depth and care.

Whether you’re working through long-standing relational patterns or exploring new territory in your sexual identity, our work will be guided by insight, intention, and compassion. You don’t need to show up with the “right words”—you just need to show up as you are.

Who I Work With

I work with a wide range of individuals and couples—professionals, creatives, parents, healers, and partners navigating real-life challenges. You might be feeling stuck in patterns that once made sense but no longer fit. Maybe you’re navigating burnout, relationship tension, or questions about your sexuality or identity. You're likely someone who thinks deeply, shows up for others, and is looking for more clarity and ease in your emotional and intimate life.

My clients often describe themselves as capable, thoughtful people who are doing a lot—and still feel like something’s missing or misaligned. Therapy offers a space to unpack those feelings, explore what matters, and reorient toward what feels authentic and whole.

Therapy Services in Kirkland

Sex Therapy

We’ll explore what’s shaping your experience of sexuality—your history, beliefs, and desires. Sessions are a space to untangle what’s getting in the way and to build a more connected, affirming relationship with your erotic self.

Whether you’re addressing low desire, sexual shame, or looking to reconnect with a sense of pleasure, this is a space for curiosity, reflection, and meaningful growth.

Couples Therapy

I help couples have better conversations around intimacy, boundaries, and desire. Whether you're navigating disconnection, different libidos, or big decisions about the future—we’ll work together to foster mutual understanding and connection.

Our sessions focus on strengthening your relational foundation, improving emotional safety, and cultivating the kind of intimacy that aligns with your values and needs.

Individual Therapy

If you’re someone who gives a lot to others or feels pressure to keep it all together, individual therapy can be a place to land. We’ll focus on what matters most to you—whether that’s reducing anxiety, rebuilding your sense of self, or reconnecting to meaning and purpose.

In therapy, you can explore the deeper layers of who you are, clarify your voice, and move through stuckness with more intention and care.

Ready to feel more present, connected, and adventurous?

Schedule a consultation and begin your journey toward a more present, connected, and adventurous version of yourself with a certified sex therapist today.

Common Concerns I Work With

• Mismatched desire or emotional distance in relationships
• Sexual shame or identity confusion
• Anxiety, burnout, or difficulty setting boundaries
• Recovering from sexual or relational trauma
• Navigating open relationships or nontraditional dynamics
• Feeling emotionally overwhelmed or misunderstood
• Wanting to feel more present, embodied, and connected in daily life

What Therapy Feels Like

Therapy with me is down-to-earth, structured, and honest. I bring warmth and curiosity to each session, and I’ll meet you where you are—without judgment or pressure. You don’t need to have all the answers to start. We’ll explore what’s working, what isn’t, and what’s possible.

You can expect a pace that’s attuned to your needs, conversations that invite both reflection and action, and a partnership that prioritizes your values and vision for growth.

Clients often describe therapy as both grounding and energizing—like exhaling after holding your breath. It's a space where you're not just managing symptoms, but discovering new ways of being in relationship with yourself and others.

Start Therapy in Kirkland

If you’re looking for therapy that’s thoughtful, practical, and real—I invite you to reach out. Let’s have a conversation to see if we’re a good fit.

Whether you live in downtown Kirkland, the surrounding Eastside, or you're seeking virtual therapy throughout Washington, you’re welcome here. Therapy doesn’t have to be cold or clinical. It can be a space of insight, connection, and forward momentum.

I'm here to support your process—not rush it. If you're feeling hesitant or unsure where to begin, that's completely normal. We’ll take it one step at a time, at a pace that honors your comfort and curiosity.